For some time now, as I have explained on other occasions, I begin to think that people are losing their minds a little when it comes to sharing their lives, because of the dependence that entails (of needing others interact with comments or likes) and because that dependence is causing many people to do things just because they know that they will then expose them to others.
Perhaps for this reason there are people who begin to react with criticism and complaints towards those who do so in a very obvious way, such as Chontel Duncan, a fitness mom (that's what she is called for being a blogger dedicated to the fitness world that has recently been a mother), which we talked about a month ago because she was barely pregnant when she was pregnant, and who was criticized for doing weights during pregnancy , that is again the target of criticism for taking a selfie without holding the head of your baby.
"Be careful with your baby's neck!"
Chontel decided to publish this photo with double intention: on the one hand that we saw her with her baby, happy and smiling, and on the other hand show once again the body that has managed so hard, posing in profile to make it clear that his belly of a woman who has just had a baby has disappeared.
The problem is that when taking the baby with one hand and the mobile with the other, the baby's head was without support and went back, and this seems to bother many people who on his Instagram decided to let him know with comments from the type "Your baby's head is more important than a selfie" or "I'm a little worried how you hold your baby."
Envy, maybe?
Well it is possible. Or that mixture of envy and "that is worth it, yes, that you have a great body, but hey, it is not necessary that you teach us every day at all times", with the responsibility of every person when he sees that the other seems Be a bit extreme in your hobbies and tastes. Something like "it is very good that you dedicate yourself body and soul to your body, do what you want, but please, first things first: take good care of your baby, which is not an object. "
In defense of criticism
She, meanwhile, has decided to go out on her own defense explaining that your baby has a lot of strength in the neck, that the same nurses at the hospital told him that his ability to hold his head was amazing and that people could be calm for him in this regard. On the other hand, he defended the obvious of being free to post what you want, and confirmed that it will remain honest and open in this regard.
Some of his fans (he has almost 500 thousand followers) defended Chontel, saying that she is a beautiful woman, that she is also a mother and that she is an inspiration for many people, a role model even for today's girls.
What do you think?
Now I would like to know what perception you have of current reality. From this exhibition we make of ourselves to the point of posing in this way, of base self-esteem in a certain way on the cult of the body and the response that can be received or not from people (I comment because I would like my daughters, if they had them, had other types of role models) and the criticism that comes later.
The same is more of the same, that of "whatever you do they will criticize you the same," or the same is that of "I only know that my son takes good care of him, but the rest of the people don't, even if it's not true ".
As you see?
